I never use acetone on anything to glue up. Brush or blow off(clean air) , I use 40 - 50 grit on lams and riser parts, I know veneer sheets I've bought seem pretty smooth, so last one I did with those, I clamped one end and block sanded with 50 , pushing away from clamp always ,if you pull back you break a veneer(I know this!!)
EA 40 is pretty easy , as long as you don't get too much of the hardener in it. I measure with plastic cups and go with a little more part a than b.
You can go as much as 2A:1B but I never go that much.