Well well well it's awesome when I dig a little and find out the truth. You were rude enough to post your BS here, so allow me to respond with facts.
You never placed an order. You never spent a dime. What you did was hand a note to one of Teresa's booth helpers at ETAR, listing a complicated custom jacket and water bottle combo and you wrote in your own(discounted) show price

Later you called Teresa, and you were so rude that she said to consider the order canceled, that she didn't want to work with you on anything custom. You then shifted gears and pleaded with her to do it. She asked you for a credit card, and you told her that your Dad was paying, and that she could call him.
That's not how Teresa does business.....but she did call....got a voicemail, and never heard from your "Dad".
So here is the final answer:
Your fictional order does not exist. You paid no money. You are either a liar or a scammer, and you are banned from buying ANYTHING from Asbell Wool or Traditional Woodsman in the future.
Other than that, have a great day.