Hi Ron,
First, thanks for the kind words. Second, permit me to ramble abit ...
You're exactly right. You CAN'T fix stupid. (I do tech support for a living, trust me on that one
)
So, that gives us two choices:
1 Give up and learn to live with it (since you can't fix it)
or
2 Analyze the problem, find the fixable causes and FIX them.
I've found, generally, that people do not like to think of themselves as stupid and giving up at calling them that rarely promotes beneficial change.
Especially when they're not 'stupid'. Your average weapon-fearing suburban soccer mom isn't necessarily stupid (not Einstein, but not my cousin Joe either). She has a gap in her knowledge and experience and has filled the gap (as we all tend to do) with emotions.
Add to that the fact that some very VERY smart people have been manipulating her perceptions to further their own agendas. (if you dig deep enough 'safety' is almost always a stalking horse for something else).
So we have this poor, confused person who wants nothing more than for her children to be safe, feels completely incapable of keeping them so because she gets TOLD constantly that the monsters under the bed are too vast and powerful for her to stop and that no one is 'doing enough' to stop them either. Like fearful people since the stone age, she looks for something she CAN control in order to save her children from the Bad Bad Things (TM).
We see that as 'stupid' because we have the knowledge and experience to know better and fail to realize that that is because we possess that specialized knowledge (how it became special rather than common knowledge and why that's sad is a whole separate rant
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So, she is no more 'stupid' for not understanding that than most people are 'stupid' for not understanding that Calculus is as *beautiful* as any piece of art ever conceived by the mind of man.
She's just misguided. This is how the road to hell is paved with good intentions.
Where it becomes a 'stupidity' problem is when we present her with all the necessary and correct information and she disregards it in order to stick with familiar emotional ignorance.
Ignorance (the lack of knowledge) is easily remedied. Stupidity (the insistence on clinging to ignorance when knowledge is available), cannot be cured because it is a delusion and only the sufferer can choose to release themselves from it.
Jake
(who is perpetually amazed at the unwillingness of 'educators' to learn)