Rob, Well said and I couldn't agree more. One thing I've watched over and over going to shoots and shows, you can hand a fellow a bow and watch them scatter arrows all over the bail, hand the same bow to another and watch them start shooting 3" groups at 30 yards from the get go....Same bow, same arrows....Good shooters are good with any bow and the bad ones are bad no matter what. While the good shooter is looking for performance, subjective "feel", and a 1" difference in groups, the poor shooter is typically looking for that holy gail. Designs that incorporate set back limbs, "forward" handles, less reflex or recurve do make bows more forgiving, but at the expense of performance. Good shooters won't notice the "forgivness" factor as much as the poor shot will.
Another factor...Tuning....Most beginners and those that don't want to be bothered, if handed a bow and you're lucky enough that the arrows are fairly "close", they'll be impressed with the bow. Hand them arrows that don't fit well with the bow and they'll see it as a "bad" bow they can't shoot...Same bow, nothings changed about the bow. So I think many that find that "magic" bow are ones that don't pay much attention to tuning (or realize it's importance)and when the stars align by random default, they fall in love.
Couple of funny things over the years, I was getting ready to shape a grip for a really good shooter and was expecting him to be picky about it. When questioned how he wanted it, he said "oh just do what ever you want, I'll figure out how to shoot it"! Another who happened to be on the US Olympic team when questioned generically about grips said "just do what ever you want, no one will like it anyway and will modify it to suit themselves!" Very profound and telling insights by some of the best. While I've had beginners and known poor shots get very picky and detailed on how they want the grip just so so. I learned something from that. Falls inline with what Rob's observations are....O.L.