The Boy Scout steel works OK, but a quality steel from a blacksmith is typically quite a bit harder, and will throw hotter (and more) sparks.
Sparks from a good steel will still be burning when they hit the ground. And they will sting when they hit the back of your hand.
You can get good fire steels from Ragweed Forge or Black Bear Forge. I have a colonial (rattail) style striker from Black Bear that is my favorite of those I've tried. (I've tried a few, as it's been about 5 years since I lit a fire with anything but flint and steel.)
Todd, I have an extra steel I could send you.