That's OK zilla. don't join. There's room for all of us, both in and out of any organization.
On the other hand, many organizations... oh like PBS... are comprised of many folks that all like to do something, the same thing, often in much the same way.
My wife is a member or two or three (I can't keep count) quilting guilds in the area. They get together and share their friendship and company and often form much deeper friendships... all because they joined something that interested them.
Is she elite. Well, yes in her own way. I sure can't (nor do I want to) quilt.Are you elite? well, you come across that way in the statement above. You got it all together yourself, and that is perfectly OK.
PBS is much the same. These folks have a certain mind set... they enjoy doing certain things... and they enjoy sharing this time with others of like mind. They often use their numbers and experience and standing to do things for the rest of the community. And for the record, just look at the membership and you will see a lot of names that most every hunting archer knows. That is in its own way kinda elite don'tcha think ?. Course, then there is members like me, who nobody knows. Hmmm what happened to the elite part ?
As for kill lists, and pull weights etc... well, all clubs have rules, made to mold and protect the club itself when it was created. They wanted a certain kind of club and meant to keep that from changing, so needing these rules.
Rules often change over time, with new blood, aging blood, even different thoughts due to different times, but in all cases, they are the clubs rules. If they do not appeal to you, it is really very simple.... don't join.
ChuckC