Is this a bad situation that has caused some bad feelings? Yes! Here is what we don't know, what is the general "rule" on this lease? On our lease, we all agree that any empty stand is fair game. We all help put up each other's stands so I guess we all put in the work. I have hunted other's stands and they have hunted mine. One morning a guy on the lease shot a deer out of one of my stands (pretty good deer, too). I met him at the gate as I was dragging out a deer I shot out of his stand about the exact same time.
If the guys on the lease agreed that “to each his own” was the rule, the fella did the wrong thing. On our lease we can't do that because it is nowhere near big enough to start calling dibs on any certain deer, so we make it clear up front.
I would be upset as well if this happened to me. Since we don't really know the whole situation, our recommendations all seem to be a little harsh. If this guy really does deserve the treatment recommended, this will not have been a first offense. Bad actors are bad actors because they have a track record of acting bad. I am lucky to have good guys with me on my lease. The same feelings would have probably happened even if the guy shot the deer all they way on the other side of the property. Perceived ownership is tough to reconcile.
It is more difficult since a young person was involved. This makes for an even better reason to set a good example and handle this in a proper way.
OkKeith