We pulled up stakes 9 years ago and moved to Wyoming. Felt like I finally got home. Welp...Wyoming was great, loved the people, country, hunting, fishing and skiing, made good money and didn't have to kill myself doing it, had a nice house paid for, wife liked it, winters didn't bother me or the wife, but.....it was also 1600 miles from family and a lifetime of friends. Mom got sick and died while we were there. We came back for a lot of funerals. Might give careful consideration to those things.
Now we're back in south central Missouri and have most of what we had in Wyoming except for....yea, right. Oh well, it's home and I'll die here. House is still paid for and we built this one, business is holding its own.
I won't relate my experiences in Connecticut....they were none good...I'd flee there too but from where you are I'd look into Vermont or Maine. I particularly like Maine, used to bear hunt, fish and ski up there. Lots of good fishin' and huntin' in both places and if you have family the trip back won't be long.
Think long and hard about the west. Hunting in Montana or Wyoming for a week or so is one heck of a lot different than living there, especially coming from the east coast. My wife are both farm raised and we spent so much time in Colorado and Wyoming before moving there that we were almost permanent party anyway. For us it was almost as if we just moved to a different set of friends and country. Still, there were some things to get used to. Such as driving two hours to shop, the same two hours to eat a meal out in a nice restuarant.....not any better food....merely nicer surroundings. One ordered lots of stuff because we didn't jump into the Cherokee and run to Idaho Falls when you needed something. We have always been planners and stockpilers of groceries so really none of those things were an issue for us....just a continuation of how we lived on the farm in Missouri....but lots of folks we knew had some real problems with the remoteness.
Good luck with your decision. It's both exciting and a mite intimidating.
Vic