Mike,
I'm SO sorry to hear you are separated from Paula... even if only for a season. I have prayed for Paula since I met you at Kalamazoo. Tonight, I pray for you and all your family.
Seeing the strength of the testimony of your life, I am reminded of two Scriptures as you face today...
I know you grieve, but not "as others do who have no hope" (1 Th. 4:13) and...
"You will keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed upon You, because he trusts in You.
Trust in the Lord forever, for the Lord God is an everlasting rock." (Isa.26:3-4)
Blessings to all of you,
Daryl