How is it you "fight" with a DB? I know you're not alone either bud, I don't understand it though. They explain it really well in the instructional DVD, but I know guys still struggle with it.
I got my first one back in 2000, watched the instr. and within a day could set it up very easily. Sometimes a new blind can be a little "tight", but they still open pretty easy.
When a guy gets them figured out, you should be able to have it "popped" in about 10 sec. from when you have it out of the bag....
If you want me to come and show you how to do it, you can invite me down when I drive down to N. Ga. in a couple weeks