I don't know anything about bowyers in Ga or SC, but since you highlighted food, I will try to help. Hit the coast and visit Savannah and Charleston. Eat at The Pink House in Savannah then stroll down towards the river front and buy a good cigar from the shop near Washington's cannons. Then ease down to the river front and watch the traffic on the river. There is an Irish pub just down from the Hyatt with live entertainment that is usually enjoyable. You can also hit Lady and Son's (Paula Dean) in Savannah-order the shrimp and grits. The Pecan encrusted tilapia is hard to beat from the seafood restaurant on that same section.
When you are in Savannah, you are within spitting distance of several barrier islands and refuges.
If you want to be nice to your lady and I am sure you do, stay at The Elliot House in Charlston. Wine and cheese in the courtyard is a nice precursor to a night on the town. Be sure to eat at Hyman's Seafood in Charlseton.