Nick,
You sound like a pretty well grounded young man to me. Everyone has given good advice, and I hope you take what you need from it and do well.
I will be totally honest with you; I started in traditional archery at a young age (5 or 6 years) because I wanted to be like my Dad. He was a traditional archer (of course this was about the time the distinction between archers and traditional archers was developing). He shot the recurve he bought with money he had saved while in S.E. Asia “on his senior trip” as he called it.
I have always shot recurves and longbows. Never owned anything else, but again, to be honest, it had nothing to do with traveling the path less followed or out of a spiritual connection to archery. I simply couldn't afford anything else. When I was a kid, my Dad gave me a garage sale recurve to shoot until I got strong enough to shoot a hunting weight bow. Then he gave me a third or fourth hand bow he got from a friend.
All through my high schools years (Lord save us from the 80's!) everyone who was anyone had a compound. I couldn't afford one and my parents couldn't either. So, I developed this "I like to do things the old way, I like to do things the hard way" mentality to cover the fact that I was embarrassed by my financial situation.
Later in my life, when my career started and I did have some money, I decided that I didn't really want a compound. Not shooting one made me different. I realized that I really did like doing things the old way or the hard way.
I still have both of those bows my Dad gave me. I doubt he realized what path he started me down when he gave them to me, but then again, the older I am, the smarter my parents seem to be.
Nick, you do what feels right to you. Sounds like your buddy is just trying to look out for you (that’s what real buddies do). Appreciate his concern and enjoy your hunting.
OkKeith