"I will not be pawed at, thank you very much."
I'm with you Bear. The thing is that, I have found over the years, that without something to escape from the overloads of life one becomes drowned in sorrow.
I think there is a happy medium to everything. A fine preacher I know once told me " beware of extremeists, either way" and " if you run out of the road on the right or left, you are out of the road". Makes alot of sense to me.
Bottom line, do what you like and like what you do. Life is short and you take nothing with you.