Antler restrictions are not a substitute for other methods of herd management, but simply an added feature to help increase the number of older bucks in the herd. That's a good thing. When the pressure on the bucks is so great that practically none of them make it to maturity, what are the options? Voluntary passing of smaller bucks is a personal option, but not a management tool.
Hunting conditions vary immensely from state to state. What is good for (insert the name of your state here) might not be good for another state. When the majority of the land is in large acreages, and the average landowner manages for big deer, no restrictions are needed. When the average property size is a few acres and there is much competition for the animals, they make more sense.
We are already being told what to do, when and where, so what's the difference in being told not to shoot certain bucks? I'm as libertarian as anyone, but I know that without management we would be back to zero. When MS started allowing the shooting of does a few decades ago, you wouldn't believe the outcry from the "experts" (including local game wardens) who said that we were ruining the herd by shooting the mama deer. And that was with one doe day a year, limit of one. Now, after the doe harvest has been liberalized, overpopulation is less of a problem, and we can shoot three bucks and at least 5 does a year, more if the land is in a state-managed management program. That's progress, based on good management decisions. Antler restrictions might be the next step in getting a better age balance for a healthier herd.
There's no one-size-fits-all answer to the question. If your state won't allow you to shoot smaller bucks, shoot does. Simple as that. Relax and let the professional wildlife managers do their jobs. If the antler restrictions don't help after a few years, they will change things again. There's really no other choice, short of anarchy.
My soapbox for the day.