Oooh. I was with a company about that long, and that's how they "downsized" me!
Don't let the blues hang out in your hat, you have a wonderful family and this might be to your benefit, as it was to me. Sure didn't seem like it at the time, and I thought the new work was gonna kill me, but it has evened out a bit and the sucky parts don't suck as much anymore. I'm a lot stronger now than I was then.
Hug your wife and shoot straight. We are all behind you as you work this stuff out.
Killdeer