your not getting soft, at least not in my mind. i think anyone who spends any decent amount of time in the woods has done something like that at least once, if not more. passing on a doe, or a doe with little ones, or even bucks for that matter is just as much a part of hunting than harvesting a deer. watching deer and how they act, move, feed vs shooting them as soon as you have the chance is just as important as the kill. i love watching animals, especially deer, and it's not always about filling the freezer.