What I learned....hmm - could be a long list.
My dad had a saying "if you get up and don't learn anything new EVERYDAY it wasn't worth getting up" so......
Learned starting with priorities:
Health - without it nothing else matters.....
then
1 - Family comes first...ALWAYS
i) have a date night with your wife atleast once a week. Doesn't have to be extravagant.
We have a movie night every Saturday night..Just me and her and a blanket and the couch....sometimes she pics the movie and sometimes I do.
We get a special treat for the night...
ii) Have sunday dinners with your kids especially as they get older.
2 - Friends NEXT
i)see them often - PHONE THEM....ppl text too much and email..just a phone call can do wonders
ii)have dinners with them -
TRY THIS...THIS IS SO COOL
Go to their place and make them breakfast or supper (that was WAY COOL). I went to a friends last sunday and made them breakfast in bed...omelets - toast - coffee - bacon - (our monavie juice)....I pre-arranged it with his wife (just so she didn't freak out when I showed up banging frying pans etc). I bought all the fix'ins
Of all the things I have done for friends this was pretty special for me and they LOVED IT.
3 - Residual income is a must and can recession proof your income.
i) started this last spring and retired my wife in 9 months...very special for me.
4 - LIVE LIFE - like you know your DYING.
5 - Give generously.
i) we have been giving to the kids in the favelas of brazil...it helps them so much...great feeling.
ii) give tips to ppl that don't usually get them. Gas jockeys...that lady/girl/man/boy at the till in the grocery store
iii) open a door for somebody and SMILE ALOT.
6 - Hunting
i) don't hurt your bow arm. I hurt mine about 3 weeks ago..still can't pull her...be ready for spring bear though.
ii) I will prepare better for my grizz hunt this year...had the crap scared out of me last spring, but I know what I am up against this year.
7 - Teach your kids a good work ethic and the value of being on time and what a promise is.
As a teacher in a tech school we get kids all the time that don't know the meaning of work and are taking trades programs. They show up late and I lock the door. They can't figure it out. I have a rule-if your late twice you get locked out after that..see ya at coffee time. I have to get them ready for reality (not reality TV - reality work). They are learning slowwwwly.
8 - LOVE YOURSELF - can't love anyone if you don't love youself.
9 - YOUR WORD AND A HANDSHAKE IS STILL GOOD AS A PROMISE.
10 - Listen to music. this is real important atleast to me
11 - Don't be afraid of making mistakes (that's crazy...that's how we learn.
Learn to love LEARNING.
Fact:
It's funny but teachers are the hardest to teach because they think that by learning somthing new they might make a mistake (I just call it an opportunity to learn).
This is a fact. I read it some place. They are so afraid to make a mistake that they won't put themselves into NEW learning situations.
I could go on and many of the things that have been spoke about before my post are great.
Have a great life - smile lots (it's infectious) - work smart - hunt smart/hard - love hard and remember.....on your death bed the ppl around you will be the ones that you have loved and had an influence on and they won't be remembering the weekends you worked (unless it was the only thing you did).
TRAD GANG IS A NICE PLACE TO BE.....
Love Jer bear....
may our paths cross someday...