Did you luck out? Only time will tell.
With the painfully earned wisdom of a couple marriages under my belt, I would have said adios when she dismissed any thought of participation in something as deeply ingrained in me as archery.
My son married a gal who hates guns, bows, & hunting, all things he was brought up to love & which are a part of his soul. He has tried to get her to participate, but she acts like bows & guns are rattle snakes. A few years into the marriage now, she has gone from the "accept w/o participating" stage to the "I can change/fix him stage".
From experience I saw this coming and told him with complete candor not to marry her in the first place. I figure he will hang in for another 5-10 years of spirit breaking hell before he gets out, and will take several years after that to repair his spirit and find himself again...
Sorry if this doesn't strike the tone you were looking for, but I've BTDT and have a very pragmatic view in regard to wedded bliss...
Who knows, maybe you will get lucky...