Wisconsin...don't give up! What is your draw length and what length are your arrows? I was just down in the basement shooting my 46# @ 27" Black Widow recurve. I was using GT 35-55 arrows cut to 29" with 50 grain inserts and 260 grain points. So, getting them to tune properly meant putting 310 grains up front!
Conversely, when I shoot Vapor 2000 arrows, I shoot a 29" arrow with 225 grains up front. The Vapor 2000 is a slightly weaker shaft than the GT 35-55.
Let me know what you are shooting now relative to length vs. your draw length and I'll see if I can help you.
Claudia