I have enjoy 99% of the shoots, 3D's, and safaris over the years. The few that I did not enjoy was no ones fault but mine. I started shooting when I was six, but never got to a range until I could drive. During the years to that followed, I traveled around the country to shoots. I worked to help the club, state and national organizations. If you get involved by helping at a shoot to make it better, you will enjoy it a lot more.
My advice is to join a club, and get involved, then when you travel to a shoot, you'll understand what goes on behind the ropes.