Put 2 screws into your workbench, 26" apart. Leave enough of the screws exposed that you can lay a shaft across them. Get a 2lb. weight from WalMart in the fitness section. Connect a short wire to the weight; connect an "S" hook to the other end. Center a 3x5 card between the screws, a litte lower than the screws.
Lay a shaft across the screws. Hook the weight to it, and mark with a thin-lead pencil on the card at the point the shaft bends to.
You now have a reference point. If the next shaft bends less, it's a heavier spine. If it bends more, it's a lighter spine.
This won't work to determine the specific spine weight of an unknown shaft, which is probably what you want. But, if you have an arrow that is the spine you want, you can test any other unknown spine shaft against it. I mean to say if you know you have the correct spine, you can sort a hundred shafts to find that same spine, thus finding a matched set.