Originally posted by Grapes: Find a way to make some side money, and never tell her where it is, or how much is in it. Beter off, you never even mention it to her. If she needs something but complains she can't afford it, pull a little out of your stash, and tell her you have been saving for a moment just like this. This way, she's happy, you only gave up a little of what you have, and did I mention SHE'S HAPPY. LOL