I don't want to sound "off center" here but I think Stickslinger made a good point. He came from a strong, in his case, bowhunting family and understood how to "Hunt" with a bow. I think, and I have seen this with my students, there is a different learning curve in place now as well as a desire for that quick gratification that generation Y (and some of the back end of generation X) seems to have. I am not being mean here so please do not shoot the messanger. This is actually a professional observation.
I come from the same background. How soon I killed my first deer is not relevant to me. It was time in the woods with gear I chose. Even then (1960's in NJ) I was critical of myself regarding my quarry.
For all of us there have been terrific highs and punishing lows. Those that stick it out will become better hunters. We learn from success and failure.
As some of you know, I live in the very southern part of Illinois and am blessed to have sufficient personal land to hunt on. This certainly, at my age, provides me with a modicum of comfort as regards my hunting. I have reached the age that I do not have to kill something to consider my self successful.
It can be a long road... hang in there