Sounds like hunting - if it were a slam dunk all of the time, it wouldn't be fun.
My year so far has been one of disappointments too. Did not pull back on a buck at all, saw only three bucks despite seeing many bucks on the trail cams all year long. Too warm, too dry, farmers pulling in to work fields adjacent to my stands when I was sitting in them, neighbor dogs running deer, wind switching, etc. Ugh - worse year ever - BUT there is second season here in WI after this weekends gun hunt closes. Then another month of bow hunting before the long, punishing wait for next season.
So, as they say, it ain't over until the fat lady sings. Heading out with the bow once the season reopens - head up, think glass half full. What else can you do?