Hi Kelly! You're right, this is a "forum of family".
And like the Bruce the teacher said: " Ask and ye shall get... answers comments, lies, stories, and all the info you could ask for..."
I had to chuckle about your comment regarding the release. About 15 years ago I can remember distinctly muttering to myself, after having just launched an arrow from my finely tuned machine: "this is ridiculous".
I gave the bow to a neighbor and one week later I had a nice used Bighorn recurve in my hands.
As to your comments about what/when/how to buy
your longbow, don't be in a hurry! Don't be shy about it...just ask and listen - you'll get a ton of information (some biased) and I'm sure you will eventually find your dream bow. You gotta be careful though. Seems we all get our hands on that beauty and soon after, our eyes wander only to fall in love with another 'un...
As Killdeer mentioned, try to attend trad expos if you can get away for a couple days..it is there you can get tons of valuable hands-on. You really need to shoot a lot of bows to be able to build your own opinion on what you really want and need in a bow.
Good luck!