Welcome to the gang Jeff!
I have to agree with everything you just said. I struggled with my recurve for years and kept getting frustrated with it then I would just put it away. I never did feel confident enough with my shooting to carry it to the woods until this past summer. I made up my mind it was going to be the Grizzly or nothing at all.
I almost gave up completely cause I just wasn't "seeing it" until one day it just finally clicked. I started seeing my arrows fly into the kill on my 3D buck and there was no better feeling of relief. I felt like I had been sitting in a dark room for years and somebody finally flipped the light switch on.
I'm hooked for life now, still got my wheelie but I hardly ever shoot it. It just doesn't seem as fun anymore, at least not as much as my trad bows are to shoot.
I got my first coyote ever with a bow this past fall and I killed it with my Bear Grizzly!