Magoo,
I hear ya', brother... I am a country boy who went off to the city for college, fell in love with a city girl and have been living in town since. That was 20 years and 3 kids ago.
Keeping a family together can be tough, which is why almost 50% of us fail at it in this country. The sacrifices are real and don't let anyone tell you different. But that is what being a big boy is all about and giving yourself to others is better for your soul than making sure you get what is yours.
We have tried the "you get to live in town, so I get more time outdoors" thing, but the realities of life make it hard for that to actually work.
At one point I went back to shooting a compound because with the time restrictions, I needed a "set it and forget it" solution at the time.
We have some public land about 35 minutes from the house where I take the kids stump shooting. It is tough with one in his early hunting years, who needs one level of attention and a couple younger who need a whole differen approach, which usually leaves my own skills neglected.
In the end though, I figure that if I have to limit my hunting range to 12 yards, but I have a kid or 2 sitting in the woods with me, then I got it right.
So, to answer your question, it is a large pain in the butt. However, as hard as it is to believe, there are bigger fish to fry. Keep that wonderful family of yours close, count your blessings, shoot when you can and enjoy it when you do.