If you've handled a Bob Lee recurve, then you must like the grip, so it has already passed one test for you. There is some variation in standard grips among the top-notch bowyers, and people tend to like one bowyer's grip better than another's.
Bob Lee is among the top handful of bowyers in the USA, and I own several. There is no hand shock, that I am aware of.
I don't believe I would ever sell or trade any of the Bob Lee bows I currently own. Which is not to say that you're going to be delighted with the first one you buy. You might decide it's too long or too short, or the draw weight is too heavy or too light, or that you really wanted a take-down or a one-piece, but you bought the other one instead. But every one you buy will end up being somebody's favorite bow, if not yours. What this means is that they are well-respected, and if you don't like the first one you buy, it will bring a good price when you decide to sell it.