I use aluminum because they are cheap, consistent and easy.
As for durability, I tend to lose 'em before I break 'em.
Wood is, from my experience, quieter but it also involves more work... finishing them, spining and tuning them, etc. But I do like them and one day I will likely make the switch.
Carbon is expensive, harder to work with and does occasionally blow up. The shafts are very consistent though but they are also light which often means more weight needs to be added.
Just my observations.