It's hard to make a suggestion on a specific bow. The best thing is for you to shoot some different ones, if you can.
Whatever you choose, there are some things you can do to help with the vibrations.
First, make sure it is tillered to the way you grip the string (split or 3 under). That can make a huge difference.
Second, put a skinny string on it. I've found a thinner string make a noticeable change.
Third, shoot a heavy arrow. A heavier arrow will absorb more energy and that leaves less to go to your hand.
I don't know what weight you plan on shooting, but the lighter, the better in your case. With an efficient bow, even 40 pounds, a 450-500 grain arrow, and a razor sharp broadhead is plenty enough for any whitetail on the planet. It would be a dream to shoot as well.
Good luck and let us know how you progress.