First off there is something about them that I like, I have owned a pile of them and still own two, but the bottom line is that they are noisy and you'll work overtime to get them nearly but not as quiet as some other bows that need little silencing work at all. The Widow is no longer my go to bow but far from being my last choice as well, I will probably always own at least one but the fact is that they are not as quiet as some other more affordable and faster shooting bows, so work with it and if it works out then great and otherwise cut your losses and move on.
They make and sell a quality product with excellent customer service, but the bow has got to work for you.