Gringol, none of us would EVER say ANYTHING bad about a guy that is having ANY kind of serious issue....family OR otherwise. The one guy that you say is "spouting off" isn't even involved with a transaction with the guy and I think he was only joking around and trying to bring a little relief to the frustration. I agree, as does everyone, that we should be the last ones to worry about in that kind of situation. However, I have personally been told 3 times that the items were already or were going to be mailed on a specific date. Each time, nothing. Then he told Terry that they were already mailed on another specific date...nothing. Emails and IM's ignored and no communication.