Sounds like we feel the same about arrows-my wife and I shot woodies for our first year or so, got frustrated with breaking arrows and seeing them get some bends. Tried carbons, wanting toughness and consistency. Got sick of all the specific parts, lack of " forgiveness", feel & noise, etc.
We decided to go back to woodies. Got the necessary tools, and I learned how to straighten them. Doesn't take long, or a special of tools. Really doesn't take long, or a lot of $. Don't see going back to carbon.
How straight? I'm no expert, by a long shot, but with a simple straightening tool, and a flat (FLAT!) surface to check them on, it doesn't take much at all to keep 'em straight... no wobble running 'em over the surface, no gaps of light showing bends. Checking that the points are spinning true is also important. So with a little bit of care, and less expense than the tools required for carbons, I'm more than satisfied shooting woods, with complete confidence.
As far as breakage, I do a lot of stump shooting; learned to choose my shots with a little more care. I find this is only helping my hunting skills. Carbons aren't indestructible, and get lost just as easy as anything else.
Go with your gut feeling, you'll be rewarded.