As I read all these aforementioned regrets, and reflect upon my own, I am left to ponder; what are WE going to do different during our remaining time on this earth?
"Would have, could have, should have", etc., all fine and dandy. But what steps are we all taking to do things differently today? No one gets a do over, but we can still change our future.
My biggest Archery related regret? Well, I started stick & string in the late 70's as a child, so I started early enough. My mistake comes from the early 1990's. I wrote to Jack Howard, requested a catalog and was seriously considering buying a Gamemaster recurve from him. The price scared me away and I bought a PSE Blackhawk T/D (Samick), which has been a great hunting bow for 20 years, but it is no Howard Gamemaster!
Now, looking back, I WASTED far more $$$ on "wine, women & song" (and guns too), than a custom Gamemaster bow and a trip out West would have cost. I WASTED some serious dough, and I mean wasted it, although I sure did have some fun along the way!
But now, in my mid 40's, don't I wish that I had flown out West, met Mr. Howard, shook his hand, spent some time with him, learned from him and paid him to make me a bow. "Would have, could have, should have"... That time has elapsed, and now Jack is gone.
We only travel this path once. At this point in my life, I focus on the future and try to think things through as much as possible. No more regrets.