The Bible says children are arrows in our quiver...
We prepare an end that does battle (tip), and an end that submits to authority (nock).
We must be careful not to put too much pressure (heavy draw weight) on an underspined arrow, or it will always result in a miss, a bad hit, or in the worst of cases, a broken arrow. The force of the bow (parent) must be properly matched to the arrow (child), whether stiff or weak. Practice under controlled circumstances (targets, 3D) also helps us to work on our aim and release mechanics. These are situations where we send that arrow out but know we are going to get it back again.
Those arrows can "do business" in places that we could never reach ourselves. Our job is to do our best to sharpen them and aim them as best as possible.
While fancy fletching and cresting makes them look nice, it really doesn't do much for the "business" of that arrow. The prettiness brings compliments to the archer (parent), but truth be told, the integrity of that shaft is much more important than its paint job.
In a lot of cases, an arrow only gets shot once... a lot of people wish they could go back and do a lot of things over with respect to their children.
And imagine how silly it would be to waste our arrows shooting at the clouds, or shoot judos at elk. It is so important to decide wisely as to what to prepare our children for, and where to aim them.