Like many of you guys, I've gotten to hang around a few bowyer's shops to see the work done.
With all the hand labor in most operations, potential for missed weights, glue up issues, machinery breakdowns, I expect a bow to be built well and if I expect artisan level work, there can and often are delays.
Having said that, I also like to be kept apprised of time line changes as they occur and not a week before my promised delivery date.
Many of the questions above, I tend to find are good grist for discussions via email during my "waiting period"(to allow for the bowyer's free time to respond vs. phone calls).
Grip. Length. Style & draw weight... and after a discussion of my use and shooting style, get recommendations from the bowyer...along with a "projected" wait time-- then plunk down the money.
Details on wood, veneers, (Other than price points), brace, warranty issues, can follow...