I'm going to avoid anything to do with penetration or speed or "KE vs Momentum is better" because its been beaten to death and it seems to be more about faith than anything else.
To address the question here.
"On Stu's calculator, the DG has more mass, less speed, aprox. the same FOC but less energy!?
Is there a top limit in mass from which the energy does not increase, for the same set up? What this tells me is that increasing mass does not always mean the I'm gonna get more penetration. Does it make sense?"
I will address the question of energy only and not penetration. From an engineering perspective, increasing mass will always increase the energy.
The reason energy always increases is that the efficiency of the bow is higher at lower speeds. The faster the limbs move the more internal friction, the more the air in front of the limb resists the movement of the limb (same goes for the string).
Energy will not start to decrease at 15gpp, it will continue to increase, but the change in energy becomes smnaller and smaller as the weight increases. This link provides data regarding tests done on a compound bow up to 20gpp. The principles of energy storage are the same, despite the differences in bow type.
http://archeryreport.com/2011/02/bow-efficiency-care/ As for Stu's calculator, it is an estimate, and clearly it is not particularly accurate under those circumstances. The heavier arrow is definately slower, it's probably just not quite as slow a Stu predicts. The energy transferred to the heavier arrow is certainly higher, probably not by more than few percent though.
At the end of the day: 10% difference in arrow weight probably means almost nothing in real world performance. A good shot always beats a bad one, and a smart shot always beats a stupid one. Both those arrows are more thn heavy enough. Some will tell you go heaveier, some will tell you go lighter ... I say if anything just stay where you are and focus on going cheaper, that way you can go more.