You need two bows and one cheap lighter weight bow. Find or decide what is your ultimate bow or the one you like the most, sell or give away all of the others, keep one of your lightest bows or get a cheap one that shoots good enough as breakin/injury bow, buy a second bow that is identical to your ultimate favorite or risk it hoping that the one you have will shoot forever, when all of that is done take your archery allowance and either buy your wife stuff that she doesn't need or give it to the poor. I will send you my address if you decide to give stuff or money to the poor. but seriously, I know of only one archer that has shot only a Bear super kodiak since 1970, years ago he decided that his bow was looking its age so he got a new one, an identical weight Super Kodiak. He doesn't believe in air conditioning and thinks it crazy that you cannot get a car without it. He does not have a computer or a cell phone, okay so he is a really good bow hunter, but he is also a total tight ass.