These are all good points, and very interesting to read and consider.
I hadn't really considered the thought of "earning" your first buck by first shooting a doe. This would be an interesting idea.
I do fear however that alot of areas in NYS already have fairly low deer numbers and shooting so many does by gun hunters would have serious impacts on the total deer numbers.
I do personally try and let all the spikes and younger bucks walk, but the unfortunate reality is that I'm affected more by what others do than what I do.
I also admit, I've not had many seasons where I don't at least see a decent buck (8pt+), and very rarely a season without a shot on at least a 6pt. So maybe I'm biased towards antler restriction because I'm not suffering.
Just for the record for those whoa re not NY hunters or residents and not familiar with the tag system ...
You CAN get:
1 buck tag for gun season,
1 either sex muzzleloading/bow
1 doe muzzleloading/bow
2 DMP (doe) tags (dependent on lottery)
AND if you're on LI, 2 does earns another buck
AND unlimited doe tags on LI (they'll keep giving you more if you bring in the doe's head)
So I think most only get 2 bucks at most, and probably only 5% of guys actually kill 2 a season. I'd be only 30% of tag holders get ANY buck.