I shoot wood for 5 years now and I am in the same process as you are. I found out that weight is more important then spine. For me that is. I can' t tell the difference between 3 lbs more or less. However, if the weight differs in a set of arra's , I sure can tell the difference.
So I order batches like 50 shafts. After I made arrows out of them, I weigh them on a digital grain scale. For one batch of arrows, the weight should differ no more then 10 grains.
With a batch of 50, I mostly end with 4 groups, in different weights.
But maybe my bows are spine tolerant. If you want perfection, you could consider to hand spine the shafts, and cut them on slightly different lengths in order to get the same dynamic spine value.
If you want absolute perfection, you could think about bare shafting and cutting each shaft to the right length. Once you made arrows out of them, you weigh them and make different classes.
You could also think about finding a supplier who hand spines and weights the shaft for you. Some suppliers do so. You pay a little bit more ( like one dollar per shaft) for this service. But you end up with great batches.
I should add that I use Sitka spruce shafts only and that I am a target shooter. I shoot till 60 yards. At this distances I found out that spine is' t important as weight.