I try to make sure all surfaces are wetted with the glue, but I don't apply a lot. I don't want a ton of glue to be pressed out as it heats. But...there is a fine line. You need ENOUGH glue. I actually hold my applicator (a plastic paint scraper, vertically and scrape the glue off with a fair (not super heavy) pressure.
I find that ANY glue makes it slippery and you have to develop a strategy for keeping things in order.
I use a lot of tape over all of the lams / plastic to keep the lams pre-placed even before I pressurize or place clamps (either way). also, I made a set of "bumpers" for the far side of the form, placed near the outer ends of the riser and at least one on each limb. This bumper is wood, and screws in place (so I can remove it if needed) and is only tall enough to work. In other words, if the lam / riser / etc is 1" tall, the "bumper" is 1" or even slightly less. This way it does not get in the way of the hose. I have used "bumpers" on back side and front side of the form and find it is not neccesary and actually a real pain.
I think some "bumpers" might help you a bit, especially in terms of alignment as you described. Try it
ChuckC