Whether he is sick or not, he owes you a service. If he is unable to provide you with said service, then he owes you a refund. You are doing no wrong by getting on here and reputation checking this guy. Every single person on here would feel and do the same as you in your shoes. I recently had an experience with a bowyer and finally eluded to telling my story with pics on here with another very disappointed customer. That would have crushed his business as it was 2 very true stories. He sent us full refunds. Of course during the time he also had every issue known to man for being consistently behind, and this is a recent burn, so I feel your pain and may be sounding too harsh.