Just for clarity, the farm, not alot of land, has been split 37 acres for me and my wife (yes I'm on the deed) and 37 acres for my brother-in-law and his wife (yes she is on the deed) and the remaining two acres are for my in-laws.
We look after the 500 acre farm that borders ours and have permission to hunt that as well. Heck, if you guys ever venture to another archery website you've probably seen aerial photos of the farm as my brother-in-law got a tad bit excited about a very large deer and posted pics on a trail cam company's website and the photo went viral, to include my brother's-in-law name and address!!
And yes, the family farm is the best place for me to get away.... The kids love to stay with Pap and Gram, leaving me and the bride alone. If I left my wife for an extended period of time, other than for work purposes, with 6 kids, as lovely as they are, I'd probably get some additional alone time!
We are planning on starting the build sometime in April or May, so I've got time to put some more cash aside.